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Online Dating Safety

1. Don't rush

Take things slow and don't rush to meet after just a few messages. If they truly are into you, they can wait until you are ready. Learn more about the person using the email and IM system on our site before meeting in person. Ask questions, request recent photos, be proactive. If something doesn't seem to add up about their story, keep asking more questions until you feel they are trustworthy or stop talking to them. Patience is an important asset in online dating.

2. Protect your identity

Do not post on your account any personal information such as your full name, your personal or work address, e-mail, phone number, etc. Do not provide this information to other members in your communication with them either. First you need to learn about the person you are talking to as possible so you can better assess their level of integrity. When you are ready to talk to a member outside of our dating site, only then you can give them your email address.

3. Follow your common sense

Follow your common sense

4. You are in control

Don't forget that you are in charge when communicating with members. You can communicate through the website until and if you ready to communicate by over the phone, private email, IM, etc. If you decide to meet in person someone you met online, let your friends and/or relatives know where you are going, with whom and when you will be returning. Your first date should be in a public place; you can make it even a double date.

5. DATING & SEXUAL ASSULTS AND RAPE

We do not offer profile screening of the new members however we do manual approval or disapproval of the new applications. The new members are advised not to give any contact information such as addresses or phone numbers while emailing other members. Prior to dating you must assume that the person that you are dating is guilty until proven innocent. In the first few dates we recommend that you include family members and friends to join in and once you get to know the individual we recommend to meet in public places for a period of six to twelve months. Once dating we recommend that at least two members of your family and two friends know where you will be, addresses and times that you will be out. You should always call your parents, family member or a friend past midnight that you are home. They should be alerted to contact police if they do not hear from you. Christian Singles Commitments Corp and its web sites (including AsianChristianSingles.com) is being held harmless against any damages for any rape charges or sexual assaults resulting from dates.

AT THE MINIMUM WE RECOMMEND YOU FOLLOWING THE TIPS BELOW:
5A) suspicious activities such as sexual gestures must be taken seriously.
5B) Questions leading to "how his / her previous relationship ended" must be asked.
5C) Meeting at his or her place is never a good idea unless you are past engagement.
5D) In addition to your mobile phone you must carry with you any type of self defense weapons.
5E) Do not hesitate to contact police at any time if you are harassed, being solicited or forced in anything against your will.
5F) You must arrive at the dating scene earlier to observe the surrounding activities.
5G) Use common sense to protect yourself.

"WE RECOMMEND THE MEMBERS PRIOR TO DATING TO USE THE FBI OFFICIAL SITE TO RUN SEARCHES IN 50 STATES"
http://www.fbi.gov/scams-safety/registry
http://meganslaw.ca.gov/search_main.asp?searchtype=name

We continuously monitor and block emails of anyone who uses profanity, solicits for sex or money, sends out spam, or commits fraud.

Married? Criminal? Solicitor? Scammer? Asian ChristianSingles is a Christian site. Married people, sex offenders, solicitors and spammers are not allowed to join this site and will be reported to the applicable State and US District Attorney Office in Washington DC and Interpol in London. If the unwanted member is from another Country, s/he will be reported to the local authorities.

We are a safe site. Our approval/admission process of new members may take up to two days (48 hours) to block unwanted members from joining this site. Our members communicate and report any unusual activities. If you are Married, a Criminal, a Solicitor or a Scammer, it is just a matter of time for us to reveal your identity.